How to Include Your Family When You Elope

Eloping doesn’t mean leaving your family out of one of the most important days of your life. As an elopement photographer specializing in breathtaking destinations like Iceland, Spain, and the Dolomites, I’ve seen many couples find creative ways to include their loved ones. Here are ten heartfelt ideas to ensure your family feels part of your special day, even from afar.

The Best Ways to Include Your Family in Your Elopement (even if they aren't present)

1. Virtual Ceremony Streaming

Share your vows live with your family through video streaming platforms. This way, they can witness your special moment in real-time, feeling the emotions and excitement as if they were right there with you.

2. Pre-Elopement Family Celebration

Host a celebration or small gathering before your elopement. This pre-wedding party can be a wonderful way for family and friends to share in your joy and give their blessings before you embark on your adventure.

3. Elopement Reception

This is our favorite one because everyone wins (and you get to wear your dress twice if you wish ;) Plan a reception or celebration upon your return. This allows you to share your experiences, photos, and videos, recreating the magic of your elopement for your loved ones.

4. Personalized Video Messages

Record video messages from family members to be played during or after your elopement ceremony. Hearing their voices and heartfelt words can add a deeply personal touch to your vows. It can be writen letters too and you can read them together.

5. Carry Family Special Items

Bring sentimental items with you, such as a piece of jewelry, a handkerchief, or a small photo of a loved one. These tokens can make you feel connected to your family during the ceremony.

6. Invite Family to the Destination

If possible, consider inviting a small group of close family members to your elopement destination. They can join you for the ceremony or be part of the pre- and post-ceremony celebrations, creating shared memories in a stunning location.

7. Family Shopping for Wedding Attire

Involve your family in shopping for wedding attire and accessories. Their input and company can make the preparations feel special and inclusive, even if they aren’t present at the ceremony.

8. Elopement Announcement Cards

Send personalized announcement cards to your family with a beautiful photo from your elopement. Include a heartfelt message sharing your joy and gratitude for their support.

9. Interactive Social Media Updates

Create a private social media group or event where you can post updates, photos, and videos throughout your elopement journey. This can keep your family engaged and involved in your adventure.

10. Hire a Photographer and a Videographer

Capture every moment of your elopement with professional photos and videos. This allows you to share high-quality memories with your family, making them feel like they were part of your special day.

So, Are You Going to Include Your Family in Your Elopement?

Eloping is about creating a day that’s uniquely yours, but it doesn’t mean excluding those you love. By incorporating these thoughtful touches, you can ensure your family feels cherished and included, no matter where your elopement takes you. As your elopement photographer, I’m here to help capture every beautiful moment, making sure your family feels part of your journey every step of the way.

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